Going to a sorority with a boyfriend...

[James]

She could just cheat also . . . and if it doesn't work out, stay with her BF. I have seen that often enough.

Originally Posted by KAY10

I'm just wondering is her boyfriend in a frat, because if he isn't it sounds to me that she wants to dump him and experiment with a frat boy. Happend all the time at my school. I've seen girls that I know who had boyfriends, hangin' out at our frat house. (without their boyfriends)

[KAY10]

Originally Posted by James

She could just cheat also . . . and if it doesn't work out, stay with her BF. I have seen that often enough.

I know. It will probably be with some guy in a frat too. You right, but that is so jacked up. I don't understand why babes want to break it off with their dudes when they join a sorority, especially if he's not greek.

[Cardinal026]

Flower33: Like AlphaFrog said, I don't believe that the outcome of your relationship would be a sole result of going through the new membership process - if you both want the relationship to work, it can.

I had been dating my boyfriend for 3 years also at the time I became a new member. He (not greek) was hesitant at first of mixers that I went to and whatnot, but as soon as he realized that I always told him what was going on, he felt pretty included. Plus I got to bring him to semi-formals, intramural games, etc. And we're still together - this Friday will be 6 years.

If you're talking about a break already though, do you really want this to work? It seems like you're looking for an out, especially if trust isn't a problem...

[sisterzip]

I would not worry about it to mutch. One of our new members is married. However it sounds like there trust isues in your relationship already. I agree that It sounds like you are looking for problems. Even if you are joining a sorority that keeps thier practices 'secret' you would no be keeping anything that serious from him

[WVU alpha phi]

Originally Posted by sisterzip

I would not worry about it to mutch. One of our new members is married. However it sounds like there trust isues in your relationship already. I agree that It sounds like you are looking for problems. Even if you are joining a sorority that keeps thier practices 'secret' you would no be keeping anything that serious from him

Married? Is she 18 or 19?
We had a girl come through rush this year that told us she had moved here with her 2 children and her boyfriend.. I don't think any sorority kept her after the second day. Married is a little different, but still.. is this common?

[epchick]

Originally Posted by WVU alpha phi

Married? Is she 18 or 19?
We had a girl come through rush this year that told us she had moved here with her 2 children and her boyfriend.. I don't think any sorority kept her after the second day. Married is a little different, but still.. is this common?

I knew a girl that went through rush with me last year who was fresh outta high school, and was married. (I think she had been married for a while too). She wasn't even from my city, she had moved here w/ her husband. I don't know if they are still together though, from what I heard she moved to a different university....and nothing was ever mentioned again about a husband

[KAY10]

Originally Posted by epchick

I knew a girl that went through rush with me last year who was fresh outta high school, and was married. (I think she had been married for a while too). She wasn't even from my city, she had moved here w/ her husband. I don't know if they are still together though, from what I heard she moved to a different university....and nothing was ever mentioned again about a husband

She probably dropped him like a bad habit. LOL