Going to a sorority with a boyfriend...

[epchick]

Originally Posted by flower33

Hey everyone I am a new number at a sorority and was just wondering how other girls end up after they join a sorority while having a boyfriend. I have been going out with him for about three years now and trust has never been an issue between us. I did recently bring up the talk about taking a break just because I did not want to always go out and have to worry about him worrying about me with other guys. All in all just wanted to know how many girls end up staying with their boyfriends, or end up splitting up after getting settled down at a sorority. thanks

If you want to break up with him, then break up with him...but don't use the sorority as an excuse, because many people have make both work.

I think the OP just wants to find an "out" of the relationship, and thinking that pldging is her key. at least thats MHO.

[KAY10]

Originally Posted by epchick

If you want to break up with him, then break up with him...but don't use the sorority as an excuse, because many people have make both work.

I think the OP just wants to find an "out" of the relationship, and thinking that pldging is her key. at least thats MHO.

I'm just wondering is her boyfriend in a frat, because if he isn't it sounds to me that she wants to dump him and experiment with a frat boy. Happend all the time at my school. I've seen girls that I know who had boyfriends, hangin' out at our frat house. (without their boyfriends)

[James]

She could just cheat also . . . and if it doesn't work out, stay with her BF. I have seen that often enough.

Originally Posted by KAY10

I'm just wondering is her boyfriend in a frat, because if he isn't it sounds to me that she wants to dump him and experiment with a frat boy. Happend all the time at my school. I've seen girls that I know who had boyfriends, hangin' out at our frat house. (without their boyfriends)

[KAY10]

Originally Posted by James

She could just cheat also . . . and if it doesn't work out, stay with her BF. I have seen that often enough.

I know. It will probably be with some guy in a frat too. You right, but that is so jacked up. I don't understand why babes want to break it off with their dudes when they join a sorority, especially if he's not greek.

[Cardinal026]

Flower33: Like AlphaFrog said, I don't believe that the outcome of your relationship would be a sole result of going through the new membership process - if you both want the relationship to work, it can.

I had been dating my boyfriend for 3 years also at the time I became a new member. He (not greek) was hesitant at first of mixers that I went to and whatnot, but as soon as he realized that I always told him what was going on, he felt pretty included. Plus I got to bring him to semi-formals, intramural games, etc. And we're still together - this Friday will be 6 years.

If you're talking about a break already though, do you really want this to work? It seems like you're looking for an out, especially if trust isn't a problem...

[sisterzip]

I would not worry about it to mutch. One of our new members is married. However it sounds like there trust isues in your relationship already. I agree that It sounds like you are looking for problems. Even if you are joining a sorority that keeps thier practices 'secret' you would no be keeping anything that serious from him

[WVU alpha phi]

Originally Posted by sisterzip

I would not worry about it to mutch. One of our new members is married. However it sounds like there trust isues in your relationship already. I agree that It sounds like you are looking for problems. Even if you are joining a sorority that keeps thier practices 'secret' you would no be keeping anything that serious from him

Married? Is she 18 or 19?
We had a girl come through rush this year that told us she had moved here with her 2 children and her boyfriend.. I don't think any sorority kept her after the second day. Married is a little different, but still.. is this common?