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09-27-2006, 07:13 PM
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Girls are crazy enough as is. No need to add in additional mental illnesses.
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09-27-2006, 10:28 PM
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Girls are crazy enough as is. No need to add in additional mental illnesses.
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LMAO. Can't disagree with you on that one. LOL.
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10-11-2006, 08:29 AM
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My gf is in contact with a ex bf-lover he has been sending her pics by cell phone and texting her , she showed me the pic of him fishing . She says they are just friends . i think this is really uncool. Any thoughts ,. ??
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10-11-2006, 10:15 AM
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Originally Posted by paul1
My gf is in contact with a ex bf-lover he has been sending her pics by cell phone and texting her , she showed me the pic of him fishing . She says they are just friends . i think this is really uncool. Any thoughts ,. ??
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yep, let me help:
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You might not like this but....your girlfriend is sick.
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she said there was no getting better
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example in the time we have been dating i have never meet her parents or even been invited to her house . she is in law enforcement and it seems everything is on her time schedule
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she is also divorced and has worn her wedding ring in front of me and still carries her married id from Canada.
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a few days later she through the shirts in the street and wasn't sorry at all and hasn't replaced them , seems to not matter . there is more just some of it any suggestions would be welcome .. thanks
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10-11-2006, 01:31 PM
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You are still having sex with her right? I mean she might be an idiot but as long as you are getting your needs satisfied its not all bad.
Just see other women on the side. It will give you a buffer against her behavior.
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Originally Posted by paul1
My gf is in contact with a ex bf-lover he has been sending her pics by cell phone and texting her , she showed me the pic of him fishing . She says they are just friends . i think this is really uncool. Any thoughts ,. ??
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10-11-2006, 03:14 PM
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Originally Posted by James
You are still having sex with her right? I mean she might be an idiot but as long as you are getting your needs satisfied its not all bad.
Just see other women on the side. It will give you a buffer against her behavior.
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Do not take this advice, Paul, dump her and move on with your life.
James will not be there to rescue you when your gf starts to act crazy. If you're seeing other women on the side then you can obviously get sex in a more stable environment. Your gf is disposable...it's not she has a diamond mine in her vagina.
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10-11-2006, 08:04 PM
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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS
Do not take this advice, Paul, dump her and move on with your life.
James will not be there to rescue you when your gf starts to act crazy. If you're seeing other women on the side then you can obviously get sex in a more stable environment. Your gf is disposable...it's not she has a diamond mine in her vagina.
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the relationship is exclusive as far as i know . understand and thank u all for your input . the bp thing is difficult to deal with and now a ex boyfriend sending her pics on her cell , she told me and showed me the pic , just weird and uncool!
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10-11-2006, 11:04 PM
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wow, dude,
actually not wow, it's a pretty common mistake.
If she wasn't bi-polar, it would be cool because then it's just your gf showing you want some guy did b/c she want you to know for whatever reason. Usually to get a little jealous so that they know if some random guy aproached them on the street, you would protect her.
Now, I know this might be hard to accept given the past history, but, that's probably all that was going on here.
Either way, if you break up because of this, it won't her fault.
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10-12-2006, 12:07 AM
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Originally Posted by paul1
the relationship is exclusive as far as i know . understand and thank u all for your input . the bp thing is difficult to deal with and now a ex boyfriend sending her pics on her cell , she told me and showed me the pic , just weird and uncool!
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Do a cost/benefits analysis. If the costs of dating her outweigh the benefits, kick her to the curb. 7 months isn't a lifetime so you can escape now without feeling like you wasted too much time and effort.
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