Bad Boys - Page 6

KAY10 · #76 09-20-2006, 04:52 AM

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Originally Posted by starang21

just to reiterate.

you're looking WAY too much into it.

No, I just like to debate. That's what this site is about. It's a site where different opinions are posted. That's what makes it so fun. Believe me, I'm not looking WAY too much into this. I just enjoy debating about different topics. Infact, I'm not your typical nice guy anyway.

KAY10 · #77 09-20-2006, 04:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Marie

Seriously

KAY10 - No one has a problem with a guy who is 'nice' according to your definition. These guys tend to have success in dating. Unless, as I stated before, the guys are seeking out women who are superficial and have their own esteem issues to deal with. What women do have a problem with are guys who do fit the profile of soft or doormat. These are the guys who often run to every female friend that they have and ask why girls are leaving them for being 'too nice'. This further solidifies their 'soft-ness' b/c this lack of self-confidence and need for affirmation is even more unattractive.

I agree. A doormat? Too me that's not a nice guy.

KAY10 · #78 09-20-2006, 04:58 AM

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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

KAY10

I married a nice guy and I used to date a whole bunch a thugs.

The reasons why: because at least I'd expect the thug to do me wrong. Maybe 'cuz of poor self-esteem on my part, maybe because I thought I was less deserving. Whatever the reasons. The fact that I wasted my time and psyche with fools who cared less about me.

But then, there's this thing about "God's time". Well, I wasn't on His time and I had to wait. I tried to force it, but it never worked or it worked for the worst.

Then, I had a "paradigm shift", short of a "revelation" from God. And that's when I met my now husband...

So, I think you've got to give some time to growing up and experiencing life before you "settle down" with someone you make your spouse. Slow down, homey...

Also, the flip side of your question:

Why is it that bruhs only like fake heifered strippers with no clothes on and 10 inch hells. That have 5 kids from 7 different baby's daddies. Living in the bottom with no direction in life but ho'ing?

And don't say she lookeded real good up in the club after a few drinks...

LOL. Some men are just irresponsible.

That's all I was saying. A lot of women date the thugs when they're younger. It's when they get older that they want to marry a nice guy. All I'm saying is I wouldn't go behind a thug, because they make a lot of women too insecure with themselves.

You must think I'm the typical nice guy because I posted this thread. Well I'm not, but I do respect women. I just see a lot of young women in seriuos relationships with the thugs though. I just posted this because I wanted to get other opinions and to see if people would agree with me, and most of you do. I posted a thread on hazing like 100 others, but I never was a hazer. I post to chat.

KAY10 · #79 09-20-2006, 05:03 AM

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Originally Posted by OtterXO

No. You are completely wrong. If you got that from the posts above then you should really go back and re-read them. It seems to me like you've decided that you have all women pegged....so there's really nothing any of us can say to change your mind. Good luck to you.

I don't think anyone is wrong. Everyone has their own opinion. I didn't say all women, I said most women are like this. You're right I have my own opinion, and I'm not trying to change yours. In fact from reading the post I don't think anyone really disageed with me, I just think a lot of women have the wrong definition of a nice man. I don't think a nice man is a doormat.

KAY10 · #80 09-20-2006, 05:14 AM

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Originally Posted by macallan25

I think you should calm down.

LOL. You thought I was going hysterical? LOL. No I wasn't. I've always been pretty laid back. If I was uptight about something there would probably be exclamation marks after each sentence. This is just a chat site. I wouldn't get uptight on something like this. Just wanted different opinions.

kddani · #81 09-20-2006, 06:38 AM

This thread reminds me of this thread: http://greekchat.com/gcforums/showth...highlight=lame

Not only in content, but in the sheer bullheadedness of the OP of each poster in the thread. They each say they're just asking for different opinions. But then when someone gives an opinion they don't like, they try to convert them and argue and argue.

OtterXO · #82 09-20-2006, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by KAY10

I don't think anyone is wrong. Everyone has their own opinion. I didn't say all women, I said most women are like this. You're right I have my own opinion, and I'm not trying to change yours. In fact from reading the post I don't think anyone really disageed with me, I just think a lot of women have the wrong definition of a nice man. I don't think a nice man is a doormat.

Actually you did say all women. You said

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Based on these post it seems to me that women feel this is the definition of a strong man.

And based on that statement I said

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you are completely wrong.

Seriously, take a look at the thread that kddani posted the link to.....because it's basically the same type of circular conversation that we're having here. Maybe it's a result of my legal training, but a circular conversation isn't really equal to a debate in my mind.

KAY10 · #83 09-22-2006, 01:36 AM

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Originally Posted by OtterXO

Actually you did say all women. You said And based on that statement I said

Seriously, take a look at the thread that kddani posted the link to.....because it's basically the same type of circular conversation that we're having here. Maybe it's a result of my legal training, but a circular conversation isn't really equal to a debate in my mind.

That's cool. You and kddani are entitled to your opinions. In my mind I think it's a good topic.

kddani · #84 09-22-2006, 06:47 AM

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Originally Posted by KAY10

That's cool. You and kddani are entitled to your opinions. In my mind I think it's a good topic.

It's not even the topic. It's the way you keep trying to battle everyone.

AlphaFrog · #85 09-22-2006, 08:15 AM

If you are a guy who complains about women who don't like "nice guys" you have a 90% chance of being a doormat, not a "nice guy".

KAY10 · #86 09-23-2006, 01:49 AM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

If you are a guy who complains about women who don't like "nice guys" you have a 90% chance of being a doormat, not a "nice guy".

I'm more confused than complaining. They like the thugs young, and then when they get older they want a nice guy they can settle down with. Some women. I know some who are with gentleman. I've never been a doormat, but I have always been a gentleman.

RU OX Alum · #87 09-26-2006, 10:25 AM

why do good girls like bad guys? knowing that bad guys tell mad lies

Langox510x · #88 09-26-2006, 11:05 AM

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Originally Posted by KAY10

Can someone please tell me why women like bad boys???

You know, the thugs, losers, guys that mistreat women.

Hey fellas have you ever heard this: "Oh he's cute and all, he's just too nice." What the hell.

Hey, I thought KAPPA's were the ladies men, the pretty boys on every campus, and all the Kappa's I know are a little dogish to the females, lol!

No disrespect though, my dad's a Kappa, and I can't see him having ever disrespected a lady.

Anyways, my friend Elizabeth who has been my friend for about a year now is in a pretty bad situation. She is extremely pretty might I add, and is with this dude who is older and isn't even in college and told her the other week if she didn't do what he said he would just go out and cheat on her. He's called her fat, ugly, a child (shes 19) and has broken up with her thousands of times. I'll admit I haven't always been the good guy when it comes to the ladies but this guy is a joke.

I'm not ever overly nice to her, but I tried to stand up for her ad she ended up getting mad at me. One thing that gets me is how her roommate and this other girl told me Elizabeth should be with me and how I was far hotter then her boyfriend too. I guess I'm just the good guy and the good guy never gets the girl.

starang21 · #89 09-26-2006, 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Langox510x

Hey, I thought KAPPA's were the ladies men, the pretty boys on every campus, and all the Kappa's I know are a little dogish to the females, lol!

No disrespect though, my dad's a Kappa, and I can't see him having ever disrespected a lady.

Anyways, my friend Elizabeth who has been my friend for about a year now is in a pretty bad situation. She is extremely pretty might I add, and is with this dude who is older and isn't even in college and told her the other week if she didn't do what he said he would just go out and cheat on her. He's called her fat, ugly, a child (shes 19) and has broken up with her thousands of times. I'll admit I haven't always been the good guy when it comes to the ladies but this guy is a joke.

I'm not ever overly nice to her, but I tried to stand up for her ad she ended up getting mad at me. One thing that gets me is how her roommate and this other girl told me Elizabeth should be with me and how I was far hotter then her boyfriend too. I guess I'm just the good guy and the good guy never gets the girl.

your friend's problem is that she's an idiot for staying.

Langox510x · #90 09-26-2006, 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by starang21

your friend's problem is that she's an idiot for staying.

I don't blame you for saying that. I thought she was far stronger then that, and I even admit I've lost much respect for her myself.