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09-11-2006, 12:16 PM
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Originally Posted by KAY10
A man who treats a lady like a lady is a man. Anything less are considered boys to me. He should support her physically, emotionally and spiritually. Take her coat off for her, open the door for her, pull her chair out for her ect. It's the simple things that get the ladies dude. I don't understand what the big deal is. Men that do this are not cry babies and are far from being soft. I grew up seeing my dad do these simple things for my mom and they've been married for 43 years. I dunno it's just how I was raised.
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Yet again, this is a matter of personal preference. If a guy tried to take my coat off for me or pull out my chair, I'd be very annoyed.
And what does it mean to support someone physically or spiritually?
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09-11-2006, 12:30 PM
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Originally Posted by valkyrie
Yet again, this is a matter of personal preference. If a guy tried to take my coat off for me or pull out my chair, I'd be very annoyed.
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You know what? I think it would annoy me too. Once or twice would be a nice gesture, but I couldn't take it all the time. Just sit your azz down. LOL
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09-11-2006, 01:22 PM
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You know what? I think it would annoy me too. Once or twice would be a nice gesture, but I couldn't take it all the time. Just sit your azz down. LOL
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I had an ex that I would literally race to the car because it got annoying that he would always open the car door for me.
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09-13-2006, 01:04 AM
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I had an ex that I would literally race to the car because it got annoying that he would always open the car door for me.
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Daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaamn!!!!! LOL. What's wrong with that? I guess that's why he's your X. LOL.
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09-13-2006, 01:10 AM
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I had an X that I opened the door for, and the other things I mentioned. She loved it. In fact she said no guy had ever treated her like that before. Well I ended up cutting her back because she had been with so many thugs it was insane. She was the one I posted in an earlier thread about her having a mental illness. An illness that hadn't been discoverd yet. Well, the thugs probably made her that way. Once I find out a woman has been with a bad boy, to the curb she goes. LOL. I'm not going behind a thug. They can go behind me though. 
Today I don't treat woman like I used to. They don't appreciate anyway.
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09-13-2006, 01:03 AM
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Originally Posted by mulattogyrl
You know what? I think it would annoy me too. Once or twice would be a nice gesture, but I couldn't take it all the time. Just sit your azz down. LOL
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LOL. O.K. that's funny and I'm laughing. The funny thing about this is if a guy doesn't do this and the woman sees another guy doing this for his woman, then she'll give him the silent treatment, and ask him "why don't you pull the chair out for me." You know that's the truth too. 
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09-13-2006, 12:57 AM
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Originally Posted by valkyrie
Yet again, this is a matter of personal preference. If a guy tried to take my coat off for me or pull out my chair, I'd be very annoyed.
And what does it mean to support someone physically or spiritually?
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Today, most woman would be very annoyed at this. 
Spiritual can be whatever the woman is going through. It can be anything emotional. Physically means he should be able to fulfill her physical needs. What ever they may be.
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09-13-2006, 11:29 AM
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Originally Posted by KAY10
Today, most woman would be very annoyed at this.
Spiritual can be whatever the woman is going through. It can be anything emotional. Physically means he should be able to fulfill her physical needs. What ever they may be. |
Eyeroll right back atcha, homes.
As for meeting spiritual/emotional/physical needs, I'm of the opinion that BOTH people in a relationship need to do that.
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09-14-2006, 12:08 AM
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Originally Posted by valkyrie
Eyeroll right back atcha, homes.
As for meeting spiritual/emotional/physical needs, I'm of the opinion that BOTH people in a relationship need to do that.
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Yeah both should do this, but I was just talking about the men in this thread.
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