What do you feel like saying, right now?

[navane]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

Hey y’all, what do you think about this Valentine’s gift? A friend of mine asked my opinion on what she’s doing for her dude for Valentine’s Day. She’s been with him for two years. I’ve only met him once, so I don’t really know him. But she just found out she’s pregnant and told me she’s going to put multiple platforms in one box. On the first platform, there’s going to be candy. On the second platform there’s going to be multiple pictures of the two of them - all the outings and trips they went on together. On the final platform is going to be her pregnancy test. She asked my opinion and I told her I don’t know him, but don’t expect him to be as happy as you. I didn’t tell her how I’d feel, but that’d fuck up the holiday for me.

What do y’all think? Mainly to the dudes on here. Ladies, feel free to post your thoughts too.

That's a hard no from me.

Unless they had been planning on having children together, actively trying, AND seriously seriously about marriage, I think this type of "surprise gift" is tacky and could backfire.

The adult thing to do is to tell him now by sitting down and discussing it in a proper way.