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Old 12-14-2008, 04:05 PM
KSUViolet06 KSUViolet06 is offline
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He sounds like a real winner ZTAngel. The gambling issue would have been the dealbreaker for me. Why are you moving in with and marrying someone who has a gambling addiction? It's not like it changes once you're married. Then you end up having to be the "money police" and try to make sure he doesn't spend ALL of it. Then it gets more complicated once kids come into the picture...

It seems like some women will put up with anything just to get engaged/married and be able to say that they have someone.

It's sad because she probably feels as though she can't do better.

I predict that they'll be divorced within a few years and she'll probably come looking for you and all of her other friends.

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Old 12-14-2008, 04:32 PM
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I'm currently dealing with a friend who's in a TERRIBLE relationship. They moved into together after 8 months of dating, she moved out 3 months after when she found out he was sneaking around with his ex-fiance, and now she's planning on moving BACK in with him (breaking her apartment lease 6 months early) at the end of January.

Every day I get emails, texts, and calls about something he's done. Hanging up on her, telling her they never should've gotten back together, leaving her place during a fight when she's crying because he "doesn't want to deal with her." She bent over backwards to make things work with him and he walks all over her because he knows he can. Here's what REALLY annoyed me- she moved out into her own place yet just paid $350 to get a pipe fixed in HIS house because his heat wasn't working! AND she makes him dinner every night, he eats then goes back to his place. His excuse is that he doesn't like being at the apartment because she never should've moved out. Um, maybe he shouldn't have been talking to his ex-fiance every day!

Oh, and did I mention that he hits on me in front of her? We live in different states so I've only met him twice, but I get texts from her phone about hooking up with me, how hot I am, he'll leave her to be with me, etc. And she just laughs all this off! He said this stuff in front of my bf once and I thought he was going to punch him.

Can you tell I hate this guy?
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