Is sex really that big of a deal?

[amanda6035]

I was 19 when I finally decided I didnt want to wait anymore - at one time, I too thought I would wait until marriage. I'm so glad I didnt. I was engaged once before.....all I can say....if I had waited around for THAT....I would have been one very very disappointed young lady.

The problem I see with older virgins is that they have such high expectations, and while sex is great...it's usally not "great" your first time. So then you end up disappointed like "That's it, thats what I waited SOOO long for?"

GREAT sex takes practice. Practice makes it fun. And BTW, I AM getting married to the man I lost my virginity to, in a little over 6 months. We went our separate ways for a while, but we're back together now and have been for almost 2 1/2 years. Sometimes, the timing isnt right - it wasnt right for us the first time. We went separate ways, I met someone else, got engaged, realized it wasnt right, and cut it off. a couple of years later, Jonny and I found our way back to each other. I know, I bet you're all thinking this is a GAG ME story - but - it's true.

I'm glad I didn't wait. I'm glad I'm marrying the man I gave it to, but I'm glad I've experienced others as well so that I'll never wonder "what if...?"