Is sex really that big of a deal?

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by christiangirl

*Only problem is, at my age, my longest relationship was for less than 4 months and it was back in high school. It seems waiting till I'm married is the reason that I can't find a guy to stay with me long enough to marry me.

So there is nothing wrong with waiting. It's just how long do you want to wait?

Sometimes, to find the best man for the job, you have to wait until your 30's or 40's.

I am a firm believer of pursuing your life goals. Get a career/job or goto grad/professional school. Then stabilize your financial situation before even dragging someone else into the mix.

I'd say, if you are going to be a physician or a neurosurgeon, you will be in school forever, save your eggs.

But, you have a world of experience.

Somewhere on GC we discussed that you ought not be defined by the marriage to a man... That truly does not define you. Yet, I am a party to attest to the fact that "when I get a man...." mythology. When I did get married, our honeymoon was over before we had one... So, it didn't make a difference for me.