Deltas I truly need ya'll help

Reds6 · #1 01-18-2007, 11:46 AM

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Originally Posted by dzdst796

I agree with you Soror. One thing my prophytes (Reds6) always told us was to handle chapter business in private. I love all of my line sisters, but we don't all get along. There is one who we really don't care much for eachother but you better believe I am not going to let anyone embarass her or call her out. I'm with you I ride for mine too and always will. I couldn't be a prophyte for this line because I would be clowning all of them.

But Steph, you all knew each other and we made it a point to know you guys and for you guys to know us before you were selected.

There's no way someone could have hid they were a single parent. The point of pledging is to build trust as you bond and learn about your sister. Staying strong and enduring.

ladygreek · #2 01-18-2007, 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Reds6

But Steph, you all knew each other and we made it a point to know you guys and for you guys to know us before you were selected.

Reds6 · #3 01-18-2007, 04:28 PM

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Originally Posted by ladygreek

During Community Service events and workshops of course! LOL

dzdst796 · #4 01-18-2007, 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Reds6

During Community Service events and workshops of course! LOL

Of Course!!LOL

dzdst796 · #5 01-18-2007, 04:39 PM

To the young woman who started this thread be careful what information you share with people because it is obvious that you are not ready to hear what other people think. Like I told you in my PM be proud of who you are, do the work of Delta, and bump everyone else.

I am not feeling you right now because when it comes to my chapter I have tunnel vision especially when it comes to my line sisters and my prophytes. So be well.

Peace

OOhsoflyDELTA#9 · #6 01-19-2007, 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Reds6

But Steph, you all knew each other and we made it a point to know you guys and for you guys to know us before you were selected.

There's no way someone could have hid they were a single parent. The point of pledging is to build trust as you bond and learn about your sister. Staying strong and enduring.

Soror...you misunderstood my post...I didn't hide the fact I was a parent or my age...I just didn't make those facts the preamble to everything I said or did while around my pros before I was selected...I knew the reputation of my chapter and that I would be ummm "busy" alot and I didn't want the fact that I was a mother be the automatic reason I wasn't selected..when my line "hung out" it was usually at my house because I had my daughter, she was no secret....with the current case in this thread, why would it be necessary for the soror to put her sexuality out there...heterosexuals don't greet people with "hello I'm so and so and by the way I'm straight"...just like with being selected for a job, its human nature that people's personal biases and beliefs will come into play when they are making selections...I have a LS that we all kinda suspect is possibly gay, does it matter to me? No, why should it, do you...I went through hell and high water with my line but my two LSs that I'm best friends with I learn new stuff about them all the time...hell I learn new things about my siblings still...I can't be mad at soror for going through her process as a woman who happens to be a lesbian as opposed to a lesbian who is becoming a Delta...I'm sure there's so much more that she is bringing to the table...

ETA: just read what went down in the posts yesterday...definitely not condoning the disrespect that went on..I'm sure young soror is just hurting and frustrated though...like I said earlier, let the haters hate and know that Delta is bigger then your chapter...best of luck to you...

Lolaluvsdelta · #7 01-19-2007, 11:38 AM

I don't understand how the OP was disrespectful?? The whole time Reds was questioning the validity of her post and basically calling her a liar. Who wouldn't get offended or upset by that?

Far as the gay thing I would have an issue with that cause thats just something i aint used to seeing.

DSTKellie · #8 01-19-2007, 11:44 AM

Who are you?

DSTCHAOS · #9 01-19-2007, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Lolaluvsdelta

I don't understand how the OP was disrespectful?? The whole time Reds was questioning the validity of her post and basically calling her a liar. Who wouldn't get offended or upset by that?

Far as the gay thing I would have an issue with that cause thats just something i aint used to seeing.

^^^ Not really a Delta

Reds6 · #10 01-19-2007, 07:05 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

^^^ Not really a Delta

LOL! I really hate you! LOL

Reds6 · #11 01-19-2007, 07:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Lolaluvsdelta

I don't understand how the OP was disrespectful?? The whole time Reds was questioning the validity of her post and basically calling her a liar. Who wouldn't get offended or upset by that?

Far as the gay thing I would have an issue with that cause thats just something i aint used to seeing.

^NEO

DSTCHAOS · #12 01-19-2007, 07:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Reds6

^NEO

He/she wishes.

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LOL! I really hate you! LOL

CrimsonTide4 · #13 01-19-2007, 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Lolaluvsdelta

I don't understand how the OP was disrespectful?? The whole time Reds was questioning the validity of her post and basically calling her a liar. Who wouldn't get offended or upset by that?

Far as the gay thing I would have an issue with that cause thats just something i aint used to seeing.

You need to introduce yourself in the appropriate thread.

ladygreek · #14 01-19-2007, 07:45 PM

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Originally Posted by CrimsonTide4

You need to introduce yourself in the appropriate thread.

Is there a thread where perps can introduce themselves?

DSTCHAOS · #15 01-19-2007, 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by OOhsoflyDELTA#9

Soror...you misunderstood my post...I didn't hide the fact I was a parent or my age...I just didn't make those facts the preamble to everything I said or did while around my pros before I was selected...I knew the reputation of my chapter and that I would be ummm "busy" alot and I didn't want the fact that I was a mother be the automatic reason I wasn't selected..when my line "hung out" it was usually at my house because I had my daughter, she was no secret

Your post was misleading because it read like you weren't forthcoming with the information. Then you stated it wasn't hard to not be forthcoming because you went to a large commuter school. Thanks for clarifying that everyone knew your age and the fact that you were a single parent. Well...I guess that's what you're saying.

As far as how "busy" you would've been, MIP is supposed to be a very busy time.

So having a child, or other obligations that a more traditional student might not have, is something that could be worked around if you're forthcoming.