Deltas I truly need ya'll help

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by OOhsoflyDELTA#9

Soror...you misunderstood my post...I didn't hide the fact I was a parent or my age...I just didn't make those facts the preamble to everything I said or did while around my pros before I was selected...I knew the reputation of my chapter and that I would be ummm "busy" alot and I didn't want the fact that I was a mother be the automatic reason I wasn't selected..when my line "hung out" it was usually at my house because I had my daughter, she was no secret

Your post was misleading because it read like you weren't forthcoming with the information. Then you stated it wasn't hard to not be forthcoming because you went to a large commuter school. Thanks for clarifying that everyone knew your age and the fact that you were a single parent. Well...I guess that's what you're saying.

As far as how "busy" you would've been, MIP is supposed to be a very busy time. So having a child, or other obligations that a more traditional student might not have, is something that could be worked around if you're forthcoming.

[crimsondanger10]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

So having a child, or other obligations that a more traditional student might not have, is something that could be worked around if you're forthcoming.

Agreed. My prophytes knew I had a child in the very beginning, and were very considerate of my circumstances. Thanks to my line sisters, I made it through my senior year of college, single parenthood, and being online all at the same time. I don't think I could have made it without them (line sisters and prophytes)knowing this information.

I would kinda be at one of my line sisters revealing this type of information later on because we discussed those types of things during our bonding process.

Just my opinion as it relates to my situation.

[OOhsoflyDELTA#9]

Originally Posted by crimsondanger10

Agreed. My prophytes knew I had a child in the very beginning, and were very considerate of my circumstances. Thanks to my line sisters, I made it through my senior year of college, single parenthood, and being online all at the same time. I don't think I could have made it without them (line sisters and prophytes)knowing this information.

I would kinda be at one of my line sisters revealing this type of information later on because we discussed those types of things during our bonding process.

Just my opinion as it relates to my situation.

sounds like you had a great support system Soror...I guess everyone's "process" is somewhat unique...but now "my soul looks back and wonder" and my LSs and I can laugh as we reminisce on that time...

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by OOhsoflyDELTA#9

"my soul looks back and wonder"

Whatchu know about Mahalia? My favorite gospel artist EVER!

Richard Smallwood is #2.

[OOhsoflyDELTA#9]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

Whatchu know about Mahalia? My favorite gospel artist EVER!

Richard Smallwood is #2.

Raised on her LPs on Saturday mornings while my Grandma cleaned the house...took me gaining some age to truly understand what I was forced to listen to..now I can appreciate the lessons..

[Reds6]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

Your post was misleading because it read like you weren't forthcoming with the information. Then you stated it wasn't hard to not be forthcoming because you went to a large commuter school. Thanks for clarifying that everyone knew your age and the fact that you were a single parent. Well...I guess that's what you're saying.

As far as how "busy" you would've been, MIP is supposed to be a very busy time. So having a child, or other obligations that a more traditional student might not have, is something that could be worked around if you're forthcoming.

Ditto!