I don't think that's the point at all. I think that's what some GCers got from the OP's story. I interpreted the story differently. Of course, neither interpretation is necessarily correct since only the OP and the boyfriend know what's going on.
The story kind of started out with one issue, and ended on another, probably causing most of the confusion.
And yes to the bold.
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