Staying Over at my Boyfriend's Fraternity House
Hello! This is the first time I have written anything on Greek Chat but I have visited alot in the past because my boyfriend is in a fraternity so I have been trying to educate myself somewhat about fraternity life (not the MTV show which I heard is pretty lame)
This question is kind of greek related and I'd appreciate it if anyone might be able to share their opinion with me. My boyfriend and I have been together since the week before Halloween. He lives in his fraternity house and it has come to the point where he wants me to stay overnight with him there. In a way, I would like to because I have a roommate in my dorm so we can't get any privacy there. But I am pretty nervous about what other people would think. His brothers are (most of them) really nice guys and they seem to respect my and his relationship but I want to keep it that way. I don't know how they'd feel seeing me leaving the fraternity house in the mornings! Actually I think I do know how they'd feel because I have heard the comments they make about girls who have stayed there. That whole 'walk of shame' stuff. I don't want them to think that way of me. My boyfriend says they wouldn't, but he obviously has an interest in my staying there so he's not a neutral party. Can someone please give me some advice?
Thank you very much,
Caitie
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