I hate my boyfriend's fraternity

[gem_star17]

how common is it for girlfriends and brothers not to get along? how do the rest of the guys treat the brother dating the "bitch" ?

i love my boyfriend of 3 years but i HATE his fraternity. im sure the feeling is mutual. im not one of those girls that likes being at the house- infact, i avoid it. im not down with being surrounded by obnoxious, random girls.

i'm not into the social scene- i would rather hang out at the library during weekends; my boyfriend is the oppossite. So, we barely see each other so when we do, i kinda just want it to be just us. I dont want his friends tagging along ( or anyone else).

needless to say, i am extremely unpopular with his friends. I cant even talk to him without them making some obnoxious comment in the background. i love him but im beginning to wonder if i even wanna deal with this. Ive been at odds with his brothers for about 2/3 years. i

m beginning to think i should just pretend to like them and make things easier for my man, but am i over reacting? wouldnt he have dissassociated if things were as bad as I imagine?