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Originally Posted by dreamseeker
with #2 and the last paragraph of what you said...all i can say is that you need to relax big time! lol. while your concerns about saying and doing the wrong things that may hurt him are valid, its more important to be yourself. just let things flow. if you are in a relationship, just focus on getting to know him rather than looking far ahead and trying to determine where things are going. there are risks involved in a relationship, but worrying won't change a thing and you'll miss out on the enjoyable parts of it instead.
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I guess I'm just scared of being hurt. I have been hurt before and have regrets I wish was easy to let go of. I don't want that to happen to me again. I know it sounds selfish. But I've come to the point that I would even jeopardize a good thing going if I knew it meant it would go no where in the end or hurt me somehow. BUT I will definitely do just as you say and RELAX. Just everytime I'm with him, I get so nervous of doing the wrong thing.
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