Why are questioning PNMs consistently demonized here?

[SWTXBelle]

In most of the threads I've read, the PNMs aren't "demonized" until they adopt a poor attitude. Most GCers are very sympathetic to those who do not have a successful recruitment UNLESS the PNMs/Moms decide to criticize the entire sorority system, or become snarky when they don't receive the answers they are looking for. Sometimes there simply is no answer that we in cyberland can give them - but they refuse to accept that. No matter how many times you post the same question, or how strident you become in demanding an answer, there are some topics we will not discuss, and some situations we simply do not have enough information on to give any insight.