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Originally Posted by Bluetiful
I'm just wondering if anyone here has found "the one" and been together a long time. Then when you think that it's time to take the next step and start discussing marriage (because things have been going great for 5 years - never lived together though) "the one" tells you that he doesn't think that you are "the one" for him. There are no kids involved. The is no cheating, no lying, no abuse of any type involved. It was just an honest heart-to-heart-with-your-best-friend kind of conversation. Nobody is mad at anyone because nobody did anything to anyone. That might have made it easier to leave, weird as it may sound. You know you're a great catch and you know you can't convince the person of this if he doesn't already think so. So you leave.
If you're willing to share, I'm interested in knowing your story. What happened? Where did you find yourself months/years later after "the one" told you that you were not "the one" for him/her? Did you ever find someone else who thought you were "the one?" Does anyone have a happy ending to share- yours or anyone else's?
Thank you in advance to anyone who replies. . . .
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My husband said I am not his "soulmate"... Does that qualify?
Anyhow, I would NOT be with ANYONE for more than a year, dating him, without some kind of commitment (if I wanted it) for him to fix his mouth to say, "I am not the O-N-E"!!! EFF THAT!!!
Oh, now he feels that way after he got his milk... Oh, now he feels that way that we know each other and are vulnerable... Oh, now he feels that way when we made our happydays together again...
"I am not the O-N-E"!!! I would be nice and let him go... Then after he smells himself and snakes his way back to me, I would have to see if he is about something I appreciate in life... Because maybe, I am not the "O-N-E" to tolerate the mess...
Like Dick Gregory says, "Huh?"
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