What to tell a girl who didn't get a bid

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Originally Posted by OTW

Okay, now this absolutely absurd. Show me where these large Southern campus ladies gets shocked at how her campus does rush? If anything, the ladies who posted here showed some concern at her rush booklet/insert because it could possibly be going against NPC policies.

The consensus I got from this thread was:

a) Have a Rho Chi comfort her -- it's their job.
b) Membership selection is private, period. End of story.

(Fine, we didn't know that she didn't know what a Rho Chi was, but now she knows and knowing is half the battle)

If anything, recruitment at MY school is probably more similar to her campus than yours... so please don't paint us all with the same brush. THANKS.

I didn't mean just in this thread, I meant in general. I had flashbacks of the conversation about wearing jeans to rush and all those other fun ones. I've met girls from her chapter (don't remember them, it was at a fundraiser given by her org from my campus) and I've heard a little about their Greek system since they're only an hour or so from mine.