What to tell a girl who didn't get a bid

Originally Posted by centaur532

Get over it. we all left it alone but they weren't spelling mistakes, they were entirely different words which gave an entirely different meaning to the paragraph.
So is this a general advice insert, or just for this one girl who's about to kill herself because you didn't give her a bid?

yes. it wasn't a spelling mistake. defiantly is an actual word. and that scentence makes complete sence with that word in there. when i spelled definitely wrong the first time and spell checked i didn't pay close attention to what i was replacing the misspelled word with. and the first person that replied to me mentioned spelling errors.

this idea was inspired by one girl who publically make a very big deal about not getting a bid. there are many girls in my sorority that have classes with here or will in the future, see her almost daily on our quarter mile campus with 5 buildings, or would like to buy coffee from her at our one coffee bar with out awkward ness. but i also want it to be general enough so that other girls who only came to one event and was nice and well liked but simply did not get to know everyone to encourage to come out again. perhaps it's better to go by a person to person basis. this idea was mainly to give to the girls in my sorority incase they are approched by her they would either know what to say or have information for her to read about it if they didn't feel comfortable talking about it.

was the reason people became so offensive about the rest of my post was because i gave too much information? everyone seemed to focus on something that wasn't the actual question. i should have just simply said "what do i tell someone who doesn't get a bid"