What would raise a yellow, or red flag on a 1st date for you?

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

I look for yellow and red flags right off the bat. I usually will call 1st to hear how she talks. If she's ghetto, that is an automatic red flag. Before I even see her, I've determined that there will only be one date. If she talks rather articulate but uses some slang, that's cool, but it depends on the slang. When I meet up with her, I look at her finger nails. If they're long and fake, that's an immeditate red flag. No 2nd date. If she has on tight revealing clothing. Immediate red flag. If she looks great, then I go into conversation. If she can't talk about current world issues, and has no sense of humor, that's a yellow flag. I'll just be a little cautious. Generally I like to meet at a bookstore, so I can see what she's reading when I walk in. That also determines red and yellow flags. The big thing for me is family. I'll ask about her family before I ask about anything else. If her family background is not similar to mine, there won't be a 2nd date. In fact there won't even be a phone call. That family background is 1st priority for me.

So if you dislike fake nails, would you date a "nail biter" with little mushroom knubs for fingers?

About familial background--what kind of family "future" do you envision for yourself?