I hate my boyfriend's fraternity

[gem_star17]

thanks for your responses.

yes, he def knows what is happening. But I'm not exactly timid, so it's been a back and forth thing between me and them. its been going on for years and its so old. i really thought it was one of those unspoken rules where you couldnt go against your brothers.thats why i was wondering how common this kind of thing was. i never even considered him defending me because i had no idea he could.

and alethia, we dont have much in common. but 3 yrs is a long time and i think thats the main reason we're still together.