how do sororities decide?

[swtlilsoni]

What are you talking about? how does it being a better sorority magically make someone walk?
I'm not digging myself into any holes, I think you're just having trouble understanding. I think you should stop attacking my decision and realize you dont really know enough about my situation for you to do so.
And this is the last thing Im going to say about this I dont think we need to talk about it anymore

Originally Posted by swtlilsoni

Kddani,

It wasnt as simple as going back for me. I had other issues and it would have been an extreme inconvenience for me to go back. If one of the chapters I was really interested in invited me, it would have been worth it and I would have figured out a way to make it there and dealt with the other issues. However since it was a chapter I had very little interest in, it was not worth the trouble..

Originally Posted by swtlilsoni

What are you talking about? how does it being a better sorority magically make someone walk?
I'm not digging myself into any holes, I think you're just having trouble understanding. I think you should stop attacking my decision and realize you dont really know enough about my situation for you to do so.
And this is the last thing Im going to say about this I dont think we need to talk about it anymore

ORLY?

[ZTA72]

Originally Posted by OTW

ORLY?

Everytime I see this, I think airport in Paris

[kddani]

Originally Posted by swtlilsoni

Kddani,
Also, I did speak with my Rho Chi and there was really nothing that could be done .. and I think a midterm is less of a hardship because its something you can get around (re-arrange study times)? I mean if your physically incapable of going, its not something you can get around.
"I'm sure you didn't stay in your dorm room and not leave it for a week.", really?

QFP


Funny, people break bones and don't stay in their room. It's called student health, crutches,etc.. Hell, people lose limbs and aren't confined to their room.

As LeslieAnne said, you would've made it happen for another group, so there's not much sympathy around here for you.

[swtlilsoni]

Anyway I dont understand why we're debating about me not attending pref, it doesn't relate to my original question

Originally Posted by swtlilsoni

Anyway I dont understand why we're debating about me not attending pref, it doesn't relate to my original question

Unfortunately, you don't really get a say in the thread's direction.

[ZTA72]

To the OP:
I don't usually post exactly what I'm thinking, especially if it is very direct.
Now I'm thinking, if I were you: I.would.stop.this.now. You are not helping youself.

[swtlilsoni]

OTW,
Yeah if it was a sorority I was going to accept a bid for I could have used crutches. If it was one that had a 1% chance of me accepting, I wouldn't have. You know why? Because its not worth it for a 1% chance. Trust me, I know alot about the chapter and am pretty sure I wouldn't be happy there. I'm not making these decisions mindlessly.

[Leslie Anne]

Oh, so now it's because the sorority that actually did invite you to Preference that you wouldn't have gotten into? Your logic here is absurd.

If they invited you to Preference you would have been on their bid list. And you have no idea where on the list!

I'm having trouble believing all this.

[LadyLonghorn]

Originally Posted by swtlilsoni

OTW,
Trust me, I know alot about the chapter and am pretty sure I wouldn't be happy there. I'm not making these decisions mindlessly.

Um. Allrighty then. I'm sure everything you heard in the tents was accurate.

[swtlilsoni]

Leslie Anna, can you read? I said 1% chance of ME ACCEPTING ... not of THEM ACCEPTING

[Leslie Anne]

Okay!

[Jen]

Recruitment is over right?

Thank God.

[icelandelf]

Originally Posted by Jen

Recruitment is over right?

Thank God.

Indeed. I think the decisions made were appropriate.

[Thetagirl218]

Originally Posted by icelandelf

Indeed. I think the decisions made were appropriate.

Agreed....Troll go away!