how do sororities decide?

[swtlilsoni]

Kddani,

It wasnt as simple as going back for me. I had other issues and it would have been an extreme inconvenience for me to go back. If one of the chapters I was really interested in invited me, it would have been worth it and I would have figured out a way to make it there and dealt with the other issues. However since it was a chapter I had very little interest in, it was not worth the trouble..

Originally Posted by swtlilsoni

Kddani,

It wasnt as simple as going back for me. I had other issues and it would have been an extreme inconvenience for me to go back. If one of the chapters I was really interested in invited me, it would have been worth it and I would have figured out a way to make it there and dealt with the other issues. However since it was a chapter I had very little interest in, it was not worth the trouble..

Extreme inconvenience? Explain.

[swtlilsoni]

OTW,

I don't have to answer to you but for the sake of your curiosity I have a swollen tendon and would have had to wrap an ace bandage around my foot and limp around campus for three hours (and I only tried walking for 10 min at my house and could barely do it, who knows how able I would have been after another two hours)

Originally Posted by swtlilsoni

OTW,

I don't have to answer to you but for the sake of your curiosity I have a swollen tendon and would have had to wrap an ace bandage around my foot and limp around campus for three hours (and I only tried walking for 10 min at my house and could barely do it, who knows how able I would have been after another two hours)

QFP.

FWIW, we once had a girl who showed up to two parties despite having the flu. She looked miserable and pale, but that's how bad she really wanted to be there. She missed the third party, but we invited her to Pref because we knew how dedicated she was.

If you didn't even bother giving this one group a chance because of the reasons listed above, then I'm sorry. No amount of advice on GC is going to help you.

[kddani]

Originally Posted by swtlilsoni

Kddani,
However since it was a chapter I had very little interest in, it was not worth the trouble..

Unfortunately, it was the only sorority that had an interest in you. They thought you were worth the trouble.

[Leslie Anne]

Originally Posted by swtlilsoni

Kddani,

It wasnt as simple as going back for me. I had other issues and it would have been an extreme inconvenience for me to go back. If one of the chapters I was really interested in invited me, it would have been worth it and I would have figured out a way to make it there and dealt with the other issues. However since it was a chapter I had very little interest in, it was not worth the trouble..

another QFP