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Originally Posted by Pope
It's good that you're okay with her prioritizing her sorority commitments over boyfriend time this week. She made a commitment to her sisterhood and she's standing behind her word. Would you really want to be with someone who casually bailed on her commitments? You should acknowledge and value the fact that she honors her promises to others, especially if you have long term intentions with this woman.
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She has honored her promises, not just with her sisterhood, but in everything else that she does.
I've just never been good with being bailed on, (this dates WAY back before I even met her) and sometimes just think of the past when I shouldn't. She's been upfront with plans with me, and that's something I appreciate, knowing how I can be a bit of a planner sometimes. (well... except one time in the spring and we had a trip planned.... then a "emergency meeting" was called the day before we left, but we both had busy weeks, and got over that, so it's okay.) It's the future, and I shouldn't base my opinions and feelings on getting bailed on by her based on people who have pissed me off in the past, that's just not healthy. I'll have my own commitments, she'll have her own commitments too, and we'll share our stories when we get back together after recruitment.
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