Graduated GDI dating Sorority Girl

[geedeamonggreek]

I can understand why some of you think that I am super clingy, and maybe I am.
I just worry that I don't do enough for her, but maybe I just do too much.

But then again, maybe I should trust myself a little more too.
I don't want to burn any bridges with anyone here, I just want to know what it takes for my own sanity, so I don't go crazy.

I am not stereotyping at all by the way, I am just going by what I have noticed lately, and talking to other friends who have been in the exact situation as I have been before.
Plus, it is a little lonely when 75% of your undergrad friends have graduated as well.

I can see I guess where I am clingy, but I know some people that can be much more clingy with their significant other, I live with a guy right now that does just that with his significant other.

[kitekat]

Originally Posted by geedeamonggreek

I can understand why some of you think that I am super clingy, and maybe I am.
I just worry that I don't do enough for her, but maybe I just do too much.

But then again, maybe I should trust myself a little more too.
I don't want to burn any bridges with anyone here, I just want to know what it takes for my own sanity, so I don't go crazy.

I am not stereotyping at all by the way, I am just going by what I have noticed lately, and talking to other friends who have been in the exact situation as I have been before.
Plus, it is a little lonely when 75% of your undergrad friends have graduated as well.

I can see I guess where I am clingy, but I know some people that can be much more clingy with their significant other, I live with a guy right now that does just that with his significant other.

I think you need to work on trusting HER as well.

[geedeamonggreek]

Originally Posted by kitekat

I think you need to work on trusting HER as well.

That wouldn't hurt either. I just don't want anything bad to happen to her, Greek related or not.

I just like communication. I don't need to see her every day (and heck, I probably won't for the next two weeks). But, even the simplest "I miss you" or "I love you" would make things better!

[clemsongirl]

Originally Posted by geedeamonggreek

That wouldn't hurt either. I just don't want anything bad to happen to her, Greek related or not.

I just like communication. I don't need to see her every day (and heck, I probably won't for the next two weeks). But, even the simplest "I miss you" or "I love you" would make things better!

Then TELL her that. If you like communication so much, do it! You come off as very insecure and clingy, and if you can't handle not being around her/hearing from her all the time then maybe this relationship isn't destined to work out.

[geedeamonggreek]

Originally Posted by clemsongirl

Then TELL her that. If you like communication so much, do it! You come off as very insecure and clingy, and if you can't handle not being around her/hearing from her all the time then maybe this relationship isn't destined to work out.

I do that, every day actually!

But I don't want to blow up her phone when I know she's got other things to do, making me sound even more like a cling monster.

[33girl]

She is really really tired and stressed and overwhelmed right now. You were not in it and you are not going to understand it. She probably doesn't want to call you and whine about this or that. Also, there are things that she just plain is not allowed to share.

I might be saying this because I'm old, But girls don't like being texted at. I mean the constant constant barrage of message after message. If you're doing that, stop.

Something nice you could do is send a bouquet of flowers addressed to the whole house, not just your girlfriend, saying good luck with recruitment.