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Old 08-13-2015, 04:19 PM
MaggieXi MaggieXi is offline
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Stage 5 Clinger material here.
On the more serious side, you say that you just started grad school, your under grad days are over. I think you are going through something about your friends moving on and your undergrad days being over. It almost seems like you are holding on (possessively) to your girlfriend to fill that void.
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Old 08-13-2015, 05:18 PM
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Stage 5 Clinger material here.
On the more serious side, you say that you just started grad school, your under grad days are over. I think you are going through something about your friends moving on and your undergrad days being over. It almost seems like you are holding on (possessively) to your girlfriend to fill that void.
That's not true, honestly a big lie. We have an authentic interest in each other and she's not there to a fill a void left over by a past.
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Old 08-13-2015, 06:31 PM
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That's not true, honestly a big lie. We have an authentic interest in each other and she's not there to a fill a void left over by a past.
I agree with Maggie. You are coming off incredibly clingy and creepy because you are trying to fill a void. You can play the victim and tell us that we are being harsh for telling you that your posts are concerning in the context of your girlfriend's safety but, you are not the only person who has ever been in a relationship with someone. You do need to just worry about school and stop being so concerned about her recruitment schedule. This week it is recruitment. Next week, she may be preparing to study abroad. Next semester, she may join the military. The point remains the same that you need to step back and re-evaluate why you are acting in such a manner about not getting to spend every waking hour with your girlfriend.
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