THE "bottom" sorority

[MysticCat]

Originally Posted by Sunny3

We just want her to get a good education, find a good set of friends, and be happy. First, however, we have got to make her see that she is still the same wonderful young woman she was before she went through recruitment.

Sure! Just remember that education comes in a variety of forms. Dealing with disappointment and disillusionment is hard, but everyone has to do it. Usually more than once. Learning to deal with that, and learning that sometimes it's for the best—that what seemed important isn't that important after all, and that what may have seemed like a "bottom" choice was actually the best fit because you chose and worked to make it the right fit—seems like a pretty valuable lesson, even if it happens outside the classroom.

[AOII Angel]

Originally Posted by MysticCat

Sure! Just remember that education comes in a variety of forms. Dealing with disappointment and disillusionment is hard, but everyone has to do it. Usually more than once. Learning to deal with that, and learning that sometimes it's for the best—that what seemed important isn't that important after all, and that what may have seemed like a "bottom" choice was actually the best fit because you chose and worked to make it the right fit—seems like a pretty valuable lesson, even if it happens outside the classroom.

This!