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Originally Posted by AOII Angel
There is always a reason why a member is selected. Pretending otherwise is naive.
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Not advising, but spent my college career in a chapter that pretty much always COBed. And the reason why we offered women bids (including several minority women) was because we liked them and thought they'd both give something to the chapter AND get something from it. Not because of a certain trait they possessed, but who they were overall. If that makes me and my sisters naive, thank God we're naive.
What KDCat seemed to be saying that I objected to was "ask all your black friends to COB events and not your white friends. " If it takes COBing to get chapter members to make friends with people of another race, that's their failing as humans, not as sorority members.
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