Is it normal to regret which sorority you joined?

[DaffyKD]

1. Your sisters are young ladies who are the same age as you. College girls are maturing but may not have reached a maturity level to deal with major issues such as yours. I second/third/fourth the advise you were given to get some professional help. On top of your depression problems you had a miscarriage which not only messes with your hormones but is a traumatic assault on your body and psyche. See a doctor now!

2. You can drop your membership, but then you will miss out on the lifetime experiences of your sisterhood. I joined my sorority in the dark ages. I see very few of my sisters who were in the house at the time I was active, but I am very close with the sisters I have met through my alumnae association. We are older, wiser and grayer. We have learned to give support to our sisters who are dealing with cancer, life issues and in several cases death.

3. You and your roommate can sit down with a few sisters who you may feel comfortable talking with about your issues. Let them know how you are feeling and what is happening. They may be able to help the other members understand how you are feeling.

With all the advice given, I would place finding a great therapist and doctor as your number 1 priorities.

DaffyKD