Alabama Sorority Costs...Can anyone help?

[IrishLake]

Originally Posted by apmgm

*As a sidenote, the term "snwoflake" really makes me bristle. Why should a parent NOT think his or her child is special and wonderful?? If you're about to take offense, please go back and re-read the part about unrealistic parents.

No, of course a parent should think that of their own children! It's when parents expect OTHERS to think the same thing. I love my children with all my heart. They are special and wonderful to me. I do not expect others to feel the same way.

Originally Posted by adpiucf

That being said, I find these work restrictions ridiculous because there is no such restriction for campus activities. I think my sorority involvement was way more intensive than any job I held off campus while I was a full time undergrad.

I think it is great to come from a family where parents pay for college and living expenses and sorority expenses. I didn't have that. I have student loans (and thanks to grad school I will probably have them until I die LOL) and I worked my way through undergrad to pay for living expenses, sorority dues, etc. If I wanted something, I had to pay for it. So I feel like if you want to be in a sorority and your major discourages holding a job, there are ways. You can have a summer job. You can babysit on weekends. You can get a paid internship. You can tutor. You can sell stuff on Ebay or etsy. You can work at any number of campus jobs where all you do is surf the internet and occasionally answer a phone or look up from gchatting to give someone directions.

OP is in a frustrating position, but by her accounts, she has a smart kid. And if her kid wants to make this work, I am sure she will be resourceful and find a way. I wish them both lots of luck and hope the daughter has a great experience at UA.

Completely agree. This could have come right from my mouth.

Originally Posted by pinapple

I think the bottom line here is that parents and students deserve to know what the financial liabilities of any organization are before they choose to join. And for recruitment, that means before they even have to pay their $100-$200 registration fee.

Absofreakinglutely.

Originally Posted by apmgm

My overall greek experience has been one of my best, and I hope it works out for this young woman. Making her mother feel bad because she is worried about the unpredictable costs didn't help matters. Good luck to you and your daughter OP.

Well said.