Always a PNM, never a sister.

[33girl]

I've never heard of ONE letter from ONE woman in ONE sorority scuttling a person's sorority chances for the whole campus, unless it has a police report or videotape attached to it.

I mean, if we met a girl coming through rush and heard through the grapevine "Debby DZ is going to drop out of DZ if this girl gets a bid" our response would be "Who effing cares?" For that matter, depending on how well liked or not Debby was, some groups would pledge the rushee just to get Debby's goat.

There are five other sororities, including a legacy which you apparently tossed to the side. You unwisely set your sights on one and refused to keep an open mind. THIS is why you didn't receive a bid. THIS is why you aren't Greek. I'm sorry your roommate was such a bitch, but there's also the possibility that this was the only way to make you see that even though YOU thought DZ was right for you, it really WASN'T.