Legacy, crazy grandmother, advice please!!!

[BidMe]

Also, so DDD is just going to think that it is cool that I may potentially be a 4th generation? I know that I'm technically only a legacy by my mother, but I would think a lineage would be pretty important. I'm just asking because DDD is pretty much the "top" house on my sister's campus and she made it to pref. But she pledged the other house (which is also a top house but has a different personality that more matches hers). She said she didn't really connect with the tri-delts she spoke too and was almost certain that the only reason they brought her to pref was because of her legacy status. And keep in mind this is a SEC school and many legacies that were only connected by one family member were cut before pref.

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by BidMe

Also, so DDD is just going to think that it is cool that I may potentially be a 4th generation? I know that I'm technically only a legacy by my mother, but I would think a lineage would be pretty important. I'm just asking because DDD is pretty much the "top" house on my sister's campus and she made it to pref. But she pledged the other house (which is also a top house but has a different personality that more matches hers). She said she didn't really connect with the tri-delts she spoke too and was almost certain that the only reason they brought her to pref was because of her legacy status. And keep in mind this is a SEC school and many legacies that were only connected by one family member were cut before pref.

I'm not sure what you're looking for here. Are you looking for someone to tell you for sure whether you're guaranteed a bid for being a 4th generation? That's not going to happen. We also can't tell you what they're going to think about you being 4th generation or how far it's going to get you in recruitment.

So with all that said, be open-minded and don't focus on Tri Delta so much because there is always possibility that your legacy status may not get you as far as you think. So be sure to focus on more than that one sorority.