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Originally Posted by BidMe
Thanks everyone for the advice! Well maybe I will just explain to her that it is really weird, but the surprise sounded good as well. My friend was telling me about Tufts rush, and although I don't remember the specifics, it sounded really strange.
Also, if tri-delt isn't required to give a bid on pref then maybe my sister lied about prefing the other house. With all of the pressure, I wouldn't blame her for doing so. I would feel embarrassed too. I was honestly quite surprised she didn't pref them. So maybe there is my explanation.
Oh and should I have my grandma fill out the legacy intro form even though I'm not a legacy through her? Tri-delta only considers daughters and sisters legacies, not granddaughters. I'm definitely having my mom fill out one, but I wasn't too sure about my grandma. I don't think she filled out one for my sister. She may have just written a letter and called 5 million times.
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I am not quite sure what you mean about your sister lying, but work with me a minute. On most campuses, a pnm may be able to attend up to 3 pref. parties. After the parties, she places the sororities in order as she would
prefer to receive an invitation to join(bid). She will only receive one bid, so she will never know where she was on the other sororities bid lists. She will be somewhere on each groups(where she attended prefs.) bid list if they comply with NPC resolutions.If your sister attended prefs. at her sorority-let's call it "ABC", and at Tri Delta and maybe a third sorority, and she placed ABC first on her list and she was on their first bid list, or at least far enough on ABC's list before they reached quota to get a bid, that is how she wound up in ABC.
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