Big Sis Shows Obvious Favoritism

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Originally Posted by aquablue912

Hi all.
I'm having a problem with my big sister. She shows a lot favoritism towards her other littles (two besides myself-one from my pledge class, and one from our most recent pledge class). She invites them to parties, buys them letters (and other gifts), and is always inviting them to hang out with her. I like her, and have really made an effort to try and do stuff with her, but she never seems to treat me the same as her other littles. I have been in our sorority and I have had her as my big for over a year and she still seems like she prefers her other littles over me. Any advice? Or will I just have to keep putting up with being the least favorite little?
Thanks.

Unfortunately there's not much you can do. In my experience, while bigs and littles are more important during your new member period, the importance sometimes fades over time and that's OK. You should be able to make friends in your sorority on your own by now.

It sucks to be excluded but eventually you'll get your own little and will know what not to do.

Originally Posted by Kirain

My big did get me occasion presents...from a dollar store which she told me without any sense of guilt.

I don't know why anyone should have a sense of guilt for getting you presents from the dollar store. The "presents" I still use as an alumna are the ones my sister-mother bought at the dollar store and plastered letters and symbols all over. This includes the much-coveted red, yellow, and green basket set that she got me for initiation. Seems every time I turned around someone was trying to make off with those from my room.

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It doesn't seem like the faded thing applies if she's obviously different with the little who is in this girls pledge class.

I also see no issue with dollar store gifts, but I do think it is odd she would tell you as such.