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Originally Posted by DubaiSis
It seems in the years since I was a collegian, the importance of bigs/little (pledge moms and daughters back in my day) has gotten a little silly. Their role, as I see it, is to guide you through the pledging/initiation process and to help you build connections in the sorority. Some will be weepy best friends for the next 60 years, but a lot are just not that important.
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This!!! My big was this way...and that was fine. She did her job with me. I just wasn't that close to her. Even some people who were in the chapter with us now think that another member was my big because we were - and still are- so close. Even she thinks she was my big! Au contraire!
I just wouldn't worry about it. As long as you have good friends there among the other members, count your blessings!
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