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Originally Posted by sewlovely
I am absoluetly planning on going in with an open mind. I want to end up where I fit best. I've heard a few things about specific sororities, but I'm not letting it factor into my decision at all. There is only one sorority I'm planning on ranking low and it's because they are pretty new (within the last 5-10 years). My mom won't help me pay for a not established sorority. She thinks alumni relations are very important. Is she right or completely wrong?
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Your mom is completely wrong, as far as in saying such a thing to you. If she's a sorority alumna, she should know that sororities are cutting rushees as much as rushees are low-ranking sororities, if not more - so to dismiss a group because they're "only" 5 years old at a particular campus may be severely limiting your options.
Alumnae relations can be important, but you won't HAVE alumnae relations if you don't choose a sorority YOU like and feel comfortable with as far as the girls in that chapter. You'll be miserable and quit while you're still in school and won't ever become an alumna.
If she persists in such a narrow-minded attitude, most sororities have payment plans and you won't need her financial assistance.
Please try to put what your mother said totally out of your head. She may think she's being helpful, but she's being exactly the opposite.
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