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Old 05-27-2011, 11:53 AM
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The primary reason I posted was the 5 years off/on at (presumably) such a young age, and I should have called them both idiots.
They are idiots for being on/off at a young age? College age is the only time on/off relationships make sense as far as I'm concerned.

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I also do not agree that because something was "done to me" that I should do the same to others. I felt that way before I joined an organization, and still feel that way after 15 years in. So, yes, for this reason, too, he seems like an idiot to me.
Neither you nor the OP know what was done to him.
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Old 05-27-2011, 02:05 PM
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They are idiots for being on/off at a young age? College age is the only time on/off relationships make sense as far as I'm concerned.
On/off relationships never make sense to me. I think it's silly to waste five years of your life trying to make it work with somebody, especially in high school/college when there is an abundance of people to meet. Just cut the cord and find someone else instead of trying over and over again. If it was a good relationship, they would most likely be "on" the whole time.


Neither you nor the OP know what was done to him.[/QUOTE]

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Old 05-27-2011, 03:31 PM
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On/off relationships never make sense to me. I think it's silly to waste five years of your life trying to make it work with somebody, especially in high school/college when there is an abundance of people to meet. Just cut the cord and find someone else instead of trying over and over again. If it was a good relationship, they would most likely be "on" the whole time.
College is a time when not everything makes sense and that's the learning process.

On/off relationships never made sense to me when I was a high school student,** when I was a college student, or now that I'm in my almost mid-30s. But, that's how I've lived my life. I definitely don't think those who have lived theirs differently in this regard are automatically idiots.

** relationships, period, didn't make sense to me when I was in high school...and kind of when I was in college

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Old 05-27-2011, 03:46 PM
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I definitely don't think those who have lived theirs differently in this regard are automatically idiots.
Good job, I guess.
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Old 05-27-2011, 03:51 PM
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Good job, I guess.
I wish I could say the same for you, even sarcastically.
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