Boyfriend Hazing

[LatinaAlumna]

Originally Posted by BluPhire

@ 33girl and LatinaAlumna

I understand your answers are probably skewed by the political correct representation of your organization, but reading this I would go with Sen's answer and not just jump on him.

Huh?

[BluPhire]

Originally Posted by LatinaAlumna

Huh?

You said break up he's an idiot.

You jumped to the conclusion he is an idiot with limited information (the fact that the only example she gave was the fact that he was hazed and now that he is on the other side he has a different idea of hazing), which is why I said don't jump on him.

Psychologically hazing and the hazing culture is deeper than just being an idiot. Many smart people have been fooled by this culture.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by BluPhire

You said break up he's an idiot.

You jumped to the conclusion he is an idiot with limited information (the fact that the only example she gave was the fact that he was hazed and now that he is on the other side he has a different idea of hazing), which is why I said don't jump on him.

Psychologically hazing and the hazing culture is deeper than just being an idiot. Many smart people have been fooled by this culture.

Yep and many smart people don't consider themselves fooled by it. They appreciate the culture for what it is and think there's nothing wrong with at as long as people don't go "too far."

Long story short, I see nothing idiotic about this man based on what we have read. If anything, I think the OP needs to think critically about why she cares so much and reflect on the fact that she felt the need to come to Greekchat to ask this.