How to stop hazing in my fraternity?

[MysticCat]

Originally Posted by dnall

Why are people so damn nit picky and judgmental about everything around here? Do yall really like starting crap and finding fault in every possible thing? I thought we were here to have legit discussions of real issues and try to help people.

Because you keep providing such a big target?

Seriously, dnall, I've said it before and I'll say it again -- you've got some great insights and great things to add to discussions. But you do seem to have a way of mixing the good observations up with some disrespect for other organizations and, I've got to say, a little arrogance. I mean, you couldn't really think that no one would take offense at or challenge a statement like this:

Originally Posted by dnall

I would say their founding was short sighted. They have lost their purpose & therefore should dissolve or remake themselves with a new change the world purpose. Otherwise it's sitting in a car that's out of gas blasting the radio and pressing on the pedals thinking you're getting to your destination. I'd rather see them out of the way so those members will go to orgs that do actively have a serious change the world mission to accomplish.

As Kevin said, people rarely join organizations whose purposes they find to be pointless. They also rarely take kindly to some outsider standing in judgment of them or commenting on whether their purposes are valid or not. It's just not your call.