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Originally Posted by SWTXBelle
It seems to me that everyone is assuming that the actives in a chapter will know both where the pnm ranked them, and where the chapter ranked her (Bid list #1 or #2). Is that often the case? In my experience, only a few actives and alumnae know how the chips fall . . . which is good. No new member should have a "Bid list #2" label pinned on her, nor should a chapter know if it was not the new member's first choice.
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Yeah the average chapter member would probably be
capable of knowing where the PNM is on their bid list, but they'd have to be doing it themselves during MS. That would be nearly impossible and highly unlikely. They wouldn't know where the PNM ranked them unless she told them and was honest about it.
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Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby
Yes, but if you tell more than one chapter that they are your absolute favorite...well...that could get around.
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Yeah and that would probably happen early on, "we had a girl tell us we were her favorite after the first night!" "Really? We did too, and so did OPQ." "Wait was it So-and-so with the yellow dress?" "YES! OMG"
Actives have their own favorites and can probably figure out who any particular PNM is with effort, but off the top of their head there are probably very few PNMs being talked about in
detail with other chapters, and many who they won't recall the names of until later rounds just due to shear numbers.
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