Hi! (transfer school, sorority chapter at new school?)

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Originally Posted by mary1510

Yes, I requested to affiliate with them but i was not chosen. They picked only 2 out of the 6 transfers. One of the girls picked was my roommie which makes this situation even more traumatic for me. i am so miserable that i want to withdraw from school.

>> I know it sucks, but that is not a reason to withdraw from school. You transferred for a reason; is that no longer valid?


I feel so rejected. i dont feel like this is an example of sisterhood.

>> It could be a numbers issue. Or, perhaps you didn't really fit with the chapter there. If you had not been a member and went through recruitment, you might not have been offered a bid from them.

Who would i pay my dues to? What would i get out of paying dues? i am a Zeta without a home.

>> Regarding the dues, I was asking if you were "in good standing" with your previous chapter and your national organization. Some groups have "lifetime" fees that they must pay at some point.

Perhaps a ZTA here can offer you some more specific advice/information. Just realize that it's not just you that this happens to, and not just your sorority. I hope that you can find other ways to feel at home on your new campus.