should i stay...or should i go?

[AOII Angel]

Originally Posted by jojocircus

what makes you assume i haven't been around? is it really neccessary for people to make negative comments? i was looking for helpful advice and wondering how others felt about their sororities b/c generally if feels like everyone is happy/proud to be there. sorry i ever posted.

So you've been an XYZ for 1 year as a new member, but you couldn't participate the first semester because you weren't eligible as a part time student. The second semester you say you de-pledged because you didn't "think it was the right fit." Please tell me how we're supposed to interpret that as having been around? You began your original post with the helpful information of "i should be excited abt this, however they were not my first choice..or even my second." None of this speaks to an open mind or a person who has tried to make things work. Give the group a break and just go away. Sorry if you don't like my advice, but not all advice is the advice you want to hear.

[AXiDa22]

Really weird circumstances but ok..

I'm having trouble understanding why you'd give something a chance that you've been miserable in for an entire year..? If you haven't made bonds, connections and don't feel at home by now, chances are you never will. I suggest you get out of it.