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Old 05-27-2010, 01:37 PM
jojocircus jojocircus is offline
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Just cut them loose. They don't deserve to deal with a member like you. How do you know you "don't feel at home with them"? You haven't been around at all the past year. I sure hope this isn't AOII!
what makes you assume i haven't been around? is it really neccessary for people to make negative comments? i was looking for helpful advice and wondering how others felt about their sororities b/c generally if feels like everyone is happy/proud to be there. sorry i ever posted.
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Old 05-27-2010, 01:40 PM
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what makes you assume i haven't been around? is it really neccessary for people to make negative comments? i was looking for helpful advice and wondering how others felt about their sororities b/c generally if feels like everyone is happy/proud to be there. sorry i ever posted.
Out of an entire thread you latched on to this?

You depledged and then came back, at least for some of that time you "have not been around"

Public forum means you get the positive and the negative. You got good advice now make a decision and don't blame it on other people.
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Old 05-27-2010, 02:30 PM
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what makes you assume i haven't been around? is it really neccessary for people to make negative comments? i was looking for helpful advice and wondering how others felt about their sororities b/c generally if feels like everyone is happy/proud to be there. sorry i ever posted.
So you've been an XYZ for 1 year as a new member, but you couldn't participate the first semester because you weren't eligible as a part time student. The second semester you say you de-pledged because you didn't "think it was the right fit." Please tell me how we're supposed to interpret that as having been around? You began your original post with the helpful information of "i should be excited abt this, however they were not my first choice..or even my second." None of this speaks to an open mind or a person who has tried to make things work. Give the group a break and just go away. Sorry if you don't like my advice, but not all advice is the advice you want to hear.
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Old 05-27-2010, 03:31 PM
AXiDa22 AXiDa22 is offline
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Really weird circumstances but ok..

I'm having trouble understanding why you'd give something a chance that you've been miserable in for an entire year..? If you haven't made bonds, connections and don't feel at home by now, chances are you never will. I suggest you get out of it.
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