Hyphenated last names

[Kappamd]

My BF and I discussed this recently, and I was surprised to find out how strongly he felt about me taking his last name. It wasn't a "deal-breaker" by any means, but I know he would be extremely disappointed if I chose not to. I don't have strong feelings for or against it, and more than likely would have taken it anyways. However, I did tell him that we best be married by the time I graduate with that M.D. behind my name, because it's not changing after that.

[ZTA72]

Originally Posted by Kappamd

However, I did tell him that we best be married by the time I graduate with that M.D. behind my name, because it's not changing after that.

I know many female physicians who keep their name and then if married after graduation then use their husband's name socially and for any children. It seems to work well to separate work and social/family life.