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Originally Posted by mittens
Just do Tri Pi a favor and depledge. You will never be happy with Tri Pi because you will always think about what might of happened if you did this or that.
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Glad you had such a blessed recruitment experience, Mittens. Not everyone is as lucky as you.
Look, I've been very open here in stating AXO was not my first choice during my recruitment. I cried on bid day, and I seriously considered dropping. I learned that I did fit in with the group, and accepted them as they accepted me.
And I still had what ifs about my second choice until about a year ago- a few months after my initiation. I don't think it's unhealthy to have them. But you also know that you are in the best place for you.
OP, if you are truly so stuck up to believe that you're above these women (which your post about your fit with the chapter implies), then drop. Chapters don't need women who are Negative Nancys, who look down upon the other sisters because they "don't wear enough jewelry" or wear Uggs. But if you can bring yourself down to earth once again, and see that you can truly fit with these women, then stay.
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