Please Help! I just have questions...

[ADPiTigergurl]

Ok so normally the more sororities there are the more competitive rush is going to be. With that said you will be a sophomore, going through a more competitive rush and already having accepted a bid and then dropping. They won't know why you dropped they will just know u did. Therefore you run (what I'm going to assume please correct me if im wrong) a fairly high chance that you may NOT recieve a bid. Lets face it if it is down to 2 girls with the same GPA, recs, activities etc. they are more likely to give it to the freshmen who didn't already drop out of a bid. SO would you rather be a Tri Pi or not be Greek at all, that is pretty much what it comes down to? ALso this sounds like you went through formal meaning you already saw all 14 chapters and for whatever reason they dropped you (AS ZBZ DID!!!) or you dropped them.

Also about your reasons for droppng. Yes they are pretty superficial. Sorry but I have to ask are they holding formal meeting every week? Based on your description of what yall were wearing, I'm going to say they aren't. Please correct me if I'm wrong. But if they aren't why did you feel the need to dress up? (We hold formal neeting on a weekly basis, and we would love to be able to come to meeting in jeans and uggs and ditch the heels) I'm not saying it is bad, I'm just saying maybe it isn't quite what you were expecting, and that why your hesitant to liking them. "Because it doesn't fit it with what your friends sororities are doing or because its not the stereotype you were hoping to find."