Non-greek lavaliering a greek girlfriend

[Sphinxy]

I agree with 33girl in that a girl should never ask to be lavaliered. Its basically a pre-engagement so make sure that that is how you view it.

Otherwise, one of my sisters at a different school was recently lavaliered by her gdi boyfriend. He used our letters and had asked permission from the house to do so. Lavaliering is typically considered an only greek practice in that you can never give her your letters and show that she means as much to you as your letters do to you. Its very symbolic in that regard. And you also wont get all the ribbing that Greek guys have to go through after dropping a girl so its never going to be the same or hold the same meaning as a Greek dropping her.

I would just give her a nice promise ring on a chain if you wanted to give her something and then she can have a candle pass in her house which makes it more symbolic...