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Originally Posted by tld221
you really found that offensive? i didnt think she was saying that teh OP didn't meet their standards - we always say on GC that there could be a host of reasons why a PNM is cut.
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I know that isn't what dreamseeker was saying, but I could see how it would be harsh/offensive to the OP. That statement in and of itself is pretty harsh (when we say it about guys, we clearly mean they aren't on our level, or as 'good' as us) and I don't think that is necessarily what the OP needed to hear about a group that she really thought she could be a part of.
I think that dreamseeker could have explained what she meant a little better (like the way some of the other GCers did) or just worded it a little differently.
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