What did I do wrong?

[Katmandu]

Originally Posted by tifferini

In fact, I did find something about this chapter that appealed to me. They had a very strong sisterhood, stronger than all the other chapters on campus. And it's not that I think I'm better than the girls in this chapter. It was just during recruitment, these girls didn't have very good conversations with me, as opposed to the other houses. They were very serious, whereas, the other chapters were fun and carefree. I don't know if it was due to nerves or anything, but it just came off as being a shy sorority.

In the end, sorority life is about sisterhood, bonds and connections, not looks, socials and status. This chapter, in your own words, had a very strong sisterhood, stronger than all the other chapters on campus. Perhaps they came across as serious, rather than carefree, because they saw in you, a woman that could connect with that bond they experience. Perhaps their sisterhood is so important to them that it is difficult for them to chitchat about it in light and humorous ways. Some chapters are like that, and if you are lucky, they want you as a sister for life.