Married & rushing?

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Originally Posted by agzg

I wouldn't harp on the married thing during recruitment. If it bothers you, I would contact the recruitment chairs of each chapter prior to recruitment. Don't ask during the process - they're trying to get to know YOU, not you and your husband.

THIS.

If al you talk about during recruitment is your hubby or wedding or whatever, it will annoy people.

Also, realisitically assess whether you REALLY can commit the time to being in a sorority.

I only say this because there are instances where married women will get a bid, then rarely come to events, saying "Well I'm married so I don't have time to hang out at Homecoming or whatever." Or they'll decide "I'm married! I SO don't have time for this!" and quit.

Also, I'd make sure your husband supports the idea and understands the time commitment involved. It's pretty annoying to pledge a married person, then have them quit later on beause "my hubby says that Kappa takes up too much time" or "I realized that I need to spend more time with my hubby."